I may have mentioned one or twenty times before that I am on some online dating sites. Working at home (for myself) does not really lend itself to being a great way to meet new people).
so my question today is - why oh why do guys keep going and going with being someone's pen-pal but never call? I have been communicating with a couple guys that I'm really quite interested in meeting in person. They both have my number - which really has done nothing more than moving the back and forth pen-pal tendencies from the dating site to now being text friends.
Seriously, I must be too old for this kind of dating or I don't really get it. When someone goes as far as giving you their number and/or inviting you to be a friend on their facebook page...THEY ARE INTERSTED. I won't say no if they say do you want to meet for coffee or drinks or something?
But still, I somehow think that it is in the hands of the guy to be the one that asks the girl out. I'm not sure what that stems from so...I guess I will have a few more text friends and add to my facebook friends numbers?
Do you know of others that have this same weird dichotomy? How to we (girls) help to push the guys to actually ASK?
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